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Sometimes you will have to adjust your dream, regarding the type of person that you want your child to Marry. It's their Right to choose who they want to Marry. You can guide them, you will try with them but you have to give in somehow at some Stage even if it is a person whom you may not considered ideal. Because Sometimes The other option, is something which is Even worse than what you are disagreeing with.
Allow your Daughter to make the Mistake and to Come Back Divorced, being your Daughter, So happy with you. And you will be able to guide Her with Love. And say my daughter
didn't I tell you? Anyway, Now you made the Mistake. We still love you and we still recognize you as our daughter. But it would have been better if you didn't make the Mistake. He will said Dad I Love you and I am very sorry for not listening to you at the first place. Instead of you saying Never Ever and She become depressed because she cannot Marry whom she wanted to Marry.
It's your fault, you send them to the School, various mixed type of education, you did not dress them appropriately when they were young,.You place them in front of the television and you subscribed to the dirtiest of the Internet channels,or satellite channels, and so on. And you still expect your Daughter to still have a Good Islamic choice of a spouse.
When your Child is young Allah gives you almost 100% control over that child. You dress the child, you name the child, you decide what the child will eat. You have all control. That is the right time you have to guide the child because as the child grows up, one by one Allah takes away the control of Elements from you, regarding that particular child.
Ideally, islamicaly, we need to speak about what should be happening. The parents of the the girls and the brothers or the relatives should keep an Eye. When they see potential Husband for their daughters or their sisters and so on. They should approach the Man or his family, or they should speak to their daughter about it. You let them two meet within the limits of Shariah. And if the Daughter say No. Don't be angry, No pressure. Because it is Haram in Islam to force your Daughter to Marry who you want, when she does not want. Its in fact a Major Sin. It is her choice.
May Allah (SWT) grant us Goodness. #Ameen.
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Sometimes you will have to adjust your dream, regarding the type of person that you want your child to Marry. It's their Right to choose who they want to Marry. You can guide them, you will try with them but you have to give in somehow at some Stage even if it is a person whom you may not considered ideal. Because Sometimes The other option, is something which is Even worse than what you are disagreeing with.
Allow your Daughter to make the Mistake and to Come Back Divorced, being your Daughter, So happy with you. And you will be able to guide Her with Love. And say my daughter
didn't I tell you? Anyway, Now you made the Mistake. We still love you and we still recognize you as our daughter. But it would have been better if you didn't make the Mistake. He will said Dad I Love you and I am very sorry for not listening to you at the first place. Instead of you saying Never Ever and She become depressed because she cannot Marry whom she wanted to Marry.
It's your fault, you send them to the School, various mixed type of education, you did not dress them appropriately when they were young,.You place them in front of the television and you subscribed to the dirtiest of the Internet channels,or satellite channels, and so on. And you still expect your Daughter to still have a Good Islamic choice of a spouse.
When your Child is young Allah gives you almost 100% control over that child. You dress the child, you name the child, you decide what the child will eat. You have all control. That is the right time you have to guide the child because as the child grows up, one by one Allah takes away the control of Elements from you, regarding that particular child.
Ideally, islamicaly, we need to speak about what should be happening. The parents of the the girls and the brothers or the relatives should keep an Eye. When they see potential Husband for their daughters or their sisters and so on. They should approach the Man or his family, or they should speak to their daughter about it. You let them two meet within the limits of Shariah. And if the Daughter say No. Don't be angry, No pressure. Because it is Haram in Islam to force your Daughter to Marry who you want, when she does not want. Its in fact a Major Sin. It is her choice.
May Allah (SWT) grant us Goodness. #Ameen.
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